Myth
If an artist draws, paints, or sketches someone they deeply love, that person will soon drift away — or the relationship will end.
Fact
There is no truth to it — this is a poetic myth, not a real phenomenon. It survives because of confirmation bias: artists tend to draw the people they love most during periods of transition, insecurity, or when a relationship is already changing. When that bond naturally ends, the portrait becomes a painful reminder, making it easy to mistake timing for cause. The “curse” framing itself spread recently as viral social media folklore, though it echoes much older myths about portraits capturing a piece of their subject’s soul.
Contemporary Digital Folklore / Art Therapy & Behavioral Psychology